<p>In this episode of The Relaxed Male, host Bryan Goodwin delves into the crucial distinction between tolerating and accepting in relationships, particularly marriage. Bryan emphasizes how tolerating can lead to resentment and emotional disconnection, while accepting allows for healthier communication and understanding. He discusses common relationship issues such as overspending and unsatisfactory love lives, highlighting the importance of addressing these problems through open dialogue and emotional honesty.<br /><br />Bryan also explores the societal pressures to tolerate undesirable behaviors and how this can negatively impact personal relationships. He encourages listeners to reclaim their power by accepting circumstances and working through them with their partners. By changing thought patterns and embracing acceptance, men can foster better relationships with their spouses and children. Bryan invites listeners to engage with him through email for further discussion and offers coaching services to help men improve their relationships by changing their mindset.</p>

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The Relaxed Male is a podcast dedicated to empowering men to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships in all areas of their lives. Whether it's romantic partnerships, family bonds, friendships, or professional connections, this show provides insights and actionable advice for building and maintaining positive relationships grounded in mutual understanding, respect, and care. Each episode delves into the unique challenges and opportunities men face when it comes to fostering meaningful connections. The host Bryan assists men in understanding how the elements of how one approaches a problem can hinder relationship growth. Through thought-provoking discussions, real-life examples, and practical exercises, listeners gain valuable tools to improve their listening skills, empathy, vulnerability and thoughts needed for building trust and intimacy with those around them. The show also covers the importance of self-awareness, personal growth, and taking responsibility for one's actions and their impact on others. Ultimately, The Relaxed Male aims to empower men to have strong relationships without sacrificing who they are in the process. Helping men to live a fulfilling life with strong meaning ful relationships and stay out of the victim trap So if you're ready to level up your relationship game and cultivate deeper, more authentic connections, tune in and join us on this journey of self-discovery and growth.

Are You accepting or just Tolerating?

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Introduction: Tolerating vs. Accepting in Marriage

Common Marital Complaints and Tolerance

The Problem with Tolerating Issues

Addressing Emotional Resistance

Ignoring the Real Problems

Victim Mode and Power Dynamics

Acceptance and Moral Alignment

Conclusion: Taking Control of Your Relationship

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If you're not respecting your wife and she's just tolerating it, then eventually, the pre the the pressure of that tolerance is going to build up till somebody snaps. Somebody blows up and just goes, what in the hell's going on? You know, they're gonna we're you're gonna have that 02:00 in the morning fight or that talk, it's more more likely at 02:00 in the morning of I'm done. I'm not playing this game no more.

You have done the work, you've gotten across the river of misery, and you're looking at whatever it is that is the problem, and you have actually accepted it and allowed it. Wait. You're telling me that I should allow my wife to spend money again. I meant talked about this, but no, instead of your wife spending a lot of money and you're getting all worked up because she's spending a lot of money, but you've done the thought work to where you go. I see my wife as the human being that she is.

Well, she doesn't like to have sex. That's, you know, causes a bit of resentment. You feeling resentful. And so you're still going to act upon that resentment or you're feeling sad, and so you're going to act upon that sadness by getting angry. You're going to feel like a victim, so you're going to become try start trying to do emotional emotional manipulation.

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