<p>In this episode of The Relaxed Male, host Bryan Goodwin tackles a tough question of the month from a listener named Marty, who finds himself in a difficult situation after cheating on his wife of nine years. With two young children and the possibility of another child on the way with the woman he cheated with, Marty seeks advice on how to confess to his wife and work towards regaining her trust. Brian shares insights from his own experiences and offers guidance on navigating the aftermath of infidelity, emphasizing the importance of accepting what one can control and the long road to rebuilding trust.<br /><br />Bryan delves into the complexities of relationships, discussing the reasons why cheating occurs and the steps necessary to improve a marriage. He highlights the significance of communication, emotional intimacy, and personal growth through the four pillars of a man's life: mind, body, community, and soul. Brian encourages listeners to take responsibility for their actions, work on self-improvement, and understand the impact of their choices on their relationships. Whether it's through open communication or seeking coaching, Brian offers practical advice for men looking to strengthen their relationships and live life on their own terms.</p>

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The Relaxed Male is a podcast dedicated to empowering men to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships in all areas of their lives. Whether it's romantic partnerships, family bonds, friendships, or professional connections, this show provides insights and actionable advice for building and maintaining positive relationships grounded in mutual understanding, respect, and care. Each episode delves into the unique challenges and opportunities men face when it comes to fostering meaningful connections. The host Bryan assists men in understanding how the elements of how one approaches a problem can hinder relationship growth. Through thought-provoking discussions, real-life examples, and practical exercises, listeners gain valuable tools to improve their listening skills, empathy, vulnerability and thoughts needed for building trust and intimacy with those around them. The show also covers the importance of self-awareness, personal growth, and taking responsibility for one's actions and their impact on others. Ultimately, The Relaxed Male aims to empower men to have strong relationships without sacrificing who they are in the process. Helping men to live a fulfilling life with strong meaning ful relationships and stay out of the victim trap So if you're ready to level up your relationship game and cultivate deeper, more authentic connections, tune in and join us on this journey of self-discovery and growth.

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When You Cheat

Introduction and Episode Overview

The Consequences of Cheating

Marty's Dilemma: A Case Study

Accepting Responsibility and Moving Forward

Rebuilding Trust and Communication

Understanding Women's Reactions

The Four Pillars of a Better Man

Summary and Final Thoughts

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I cheated on my wife nine nine years. So they were married for nine years. We have two kids, one under five and one that's, an infant, newborn. Not even made it to first year, so there's just barely starting to figure out how to tot her, crawling around. So I made a mistake, and the woman I was with says she might be pregnant. Now, how can I tell my wife and convince her to stay with me while I work on gaining her trust and forgiveness back? And this is by Marty.

You have to accept what you can and what you cannot control. You can control your thoughts, your actions. Alright? And that's all you can tell. Yeah. That's all you can do. So if you tell her, there's no means of convincing her to stay. She's going to she's gonna have a made up in her mind that she's either a, gonna stay or not gonna stay, and both of them are gonna suck. Alright? Your seven minutes to heaven is going to be twenty years of proof.

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