Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey

About

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

  • 238: Why You SHOULDN'T Always Trust Your Instincts In Dating
    We are often told to "trust our instincts" in love and relationships. But sometimes our first reaction can be unhealthy, impulsive, or come from bad patterns we have learned that cause us to self-sabotage. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about...
  • 237: How To Find Love With Anxious Attachment
    Matt and Audrey had the pleasure this week of sitting down with Mark Groves, author of the new book "" and host of the podcast. In this episode, we discuss anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles in love, how to overcome co-dependency,...
  • (Matt Monday): 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Dating
    You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s...
  • (Rewind): Feeling Insecure About Their Ex? WATCH THIS
    Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history. In this episode, we talk about the problem of this...
  • 236: Why You Should Feel Confident NOW
    Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only comes after you achieve a certain goal. Matt and Audrey sit down to explain why none of those...
  • 235: THIS Is a Common Tactic Used to Avoid Commitment
    Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find...
  • (Matt Monday): Is A Great First Date A Red Flag?
    A bad date—where we know we won’t see the person again—can be frustrating since it wastes our time. But what’s even MORE frustrating? An amazing date with someone who just disappears after seeing us only once or twice. It leaves us wondering:...
  • (Rewind) Why Did They Stop Chasing You?
    In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out. Once you’re aware of...
  • 234: How To Have Honest Conversations About What We Want In Love
    Ever felt like you're scared of expressing your honest feelings when dating or in a relationship? It can often feel scary to put ourselves on the line. Or to open up. Or to even admit to ourselves that we want to find love. In this episode,...
  • (Matt Monday): If You Hear THIS From Your Long-Distance Partner... RUN!
    Long-distance relationships are a tough gig. You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know when you’ll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends. Long-distance...
  • (Rewind): 5 Shortcuts to Finding Love (Even if You Hate Dating)
    Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating...
  • 233: What We Wish We Knew BEFORE Planning Our Wedding
    Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding! In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to...
  • (Matt Monday): How Me and My Wife Met... (It's Not What You Think)
    People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?” Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did. I believe anyone can...
  • (Rewind): Don't Like Their Behavior? Use These 3 Simple Tips!
    If you’ve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments. Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something that’s...
  • 232: How To Feel Worthy Of Love
    What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are? There are so many things that can knock us off our path, make us feel shame, and cause us to feel...
  • (Matt Monday): Are They Emotionally Unavailable? DON'T CHASE, Do THIS!
    Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back? Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more. This is nothing more...
  • (Rewind): Do You Give Too Much In Relationships? Listen To This...
    Do you ignore red flags? Do you feel like you give too much in your relationships? Do you brush things under the carpet when someone violates your boundaries? If so, this week’s episode is specifically for you… The richness and depth of a true...
  • 231: The Danger of Holding Out for "The One"
    Matthew and Audrey sit down to talk about love lessons learned from the Netflix show "One Day". Topics include the danger of holding out for someone who remains a fantasy, how the love stories we tell can be intoxicating but also dangerous, and why we...
  • (Matt Monday): The Most Dangerous Person in Dating...
    Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “What are we?!” every time you’re together? Turns out there is a solution for this (and you...
  • (Rewind): 5 First-Date Moves That Make Them Want More
    People think going on a date with someone is simple. You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. End of story. Well... that’s not bad. But do you...