Facing Retirement: "But isn't it interesting that once you retire, as we call it, right, and you leave that organization...you're faced with that "what am I gonna do now?" Well, what do I wanna do? Well, you haven't thought about it because remember, those thirty years, they were spent all about the organization, all about the next career move, the promotion, the stock options, the 401k." - Eric Pennington, Spirit of EQWe look into the complex and often misunderstood concept of retirement with the guidance of expert guest, Eric Pennington. As the managing partner of Spirit of EQ and author of "The Well-being Guide," Eric brings a unique perspective on the emotional intelligence required to face retirement's challenges and opportunities. Together, we explore the fear and misconceptions surrounding retirement, the pressure from societal norms and marketing, and the essential resources needed for a fulfilling post-career life. Eric emphasizes the importance of self-discovery, building emotional intelligence, and preparing mentally and physically for this new chapter. Whether you're nearing retirement age or just starting to consider your future, this episode offers valuable insights on redefining retirement and creating a meaningful and purposeful life beyond traditional career paths. We uncover the myths of retirement and learn how to navigate the emotional journey toward this next adventure.If you like this episode, please let us know. We appreciate the feed back, and your support of offset costs of producing the podcast!Here are three key takeaways from our conversation:Rewire Your Mindset: Your brain is capable of being rewired, even as you approach retirement. Building emotional intelligence is crucial to facing retirement without fear. Embrace the idea of lifelong growth and redefine what retirement means to you.Build Your Resources: Whether it’s financial savings, health, or emotional support, start building your resources now. Remember, this isn't just about money. Focus on mental, physical, and emotional well-being to prepare for a fulfilling journey ahead.Curiosity and Purpose: Never stop asking questions about your purpose and emotional experiences. Cultivate curiosity and explore what genuinely matters to you, so that when the time comes, you know what your next step will be.Episode Highlights00:00 Developing Emotional Intelligence with Data06:00 "Evolved Minds, Ancient Instincts"07:51 Marketing and the "Not Enough" Culture12:49 Challenging Age-Related Cultural Norms14:17 "Age is Just a Number"18:22 Retirement Planning and Adaptation22:39 Defining Life's Next Journey27:18 "Defining Life's Purpose"28:09 "Post-Retirement Purpose Dilemma"31:19 Exploring Self-Knowledge and Growth36:55 Reflecting on Career Preferences40:02 Weekend Retreat for Self-Discovery42:50 "Empowerment Beyond Retirement Age"46:00 "The Power of Curiosity"48:37 Timely Adaptation Challenges53:26 "Building Your Resource Pillars"57:40 Insights on Thinking Fast and Slow59:05 "Lisa Feldman Barrett Books"We would love to hear from you.Give us your feedback, or suggest a topic, by leaving us a voice message.Email us at hello@lookingforwardourway.com.Find us on Bluesky and Facebook.