Regan and Chesko tackle the frustrating trend of men who weaponize incompetence in their relationships, and worse, convince their partners to find it endearing. They break down a viral podcast clip where men suggest moms "secretly hope" the house falls apart when they leave, exposing how this narrative justifies incompetent parenting while shifting focus from men's failures to women's reactions. They discuss real examples of fathers who can't handle basic childcare for a few days, the manipulative patterns that make women defend objectively bad behavior, and why being appreciated shouldn't require watching everything fall apart. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper