Rachel ponders how we, as humans, change over the course of a life. She talks about changing attachment styles, the love languages, then chats a bit about the viral “Who the Fuck Did I Marry” tik tok saga. She then welcomes erotica writer Ruan Willow and the two discuss the differences between porn and erotica, how to write erotica, audio erotica, and more! Episode Notes: Conversation with Ruan begins at 00:15:24. Follow Ruan Willow:  Website: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/  Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rmfiA8FVPG766ouQ9P3QG  I Dare You Released March 9: https://www.amazon.com/Dare-You-Saturday-Challenge-Play-ebook/dp/B0CST8K18R  Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ruan-Willow/author/B08ZYW6B3K Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ruanwillow/?hl=en  Medium: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow  Goodreads: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow  Substack: https://ruanwillow.substack.com/  FrolicMe: https://www.frolicmep[dot]com/erotic-authors/ruan-willow/  Discussed in this episode: Taylor Tomlinson love languages: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gmK_ei4NlU  Reesa Teesa on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reesamteesa?lang=en  Full “Who the Fuck Did I Marry?” story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EC1dKx6maZ4  Gilbert Godfrey reads 50 Shades of Grey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XkLqAlIETkA Shayla Black: https://www.shaylablack.com/ -------- Let’s keep talking! Have a question or idea for a topic? Email winedine69pod@gmail.com! Podcast artwork by Yogesh Nankar (Design by Dreamers). Intro and Outro music by John Bartmann.  Promo image used with permission by Ruan Willow.