What happens when your children turn your household into a battleground? For Yusef Marshall, known as "The Incredible Mr. Yu," the solution came through a radical shift in perspective that transformed his family dynamics forever.Join us for a candid, eye-opening conversation with a father of three grown daughters who made it through nearly 30 years of marriage by discovering the power of the united front. Mr. Yu shares the turning point when he and his wife realized they were "winging it" through parenthood and how their decision to prioritize their marriage above everything else changed everything."They can be a prince or princess, but they can't be the king or queen," Mr. Yu explains, challenging the common notion that children should be the center of family life. With remarkable honesty, he reveals how this commitment helped them weather manipulation attempts, intense resistance, and even moments when they wondered if their marriage would survive.This episode offers practical wisdom about creating a family strategy instead of just reacting to daily challenges. You'll hear how establishing clear boundaries prevented their children from playing parents against each other and how maintaining unity provided stability through tumultuous times. For fathers who feel caught in the day-to-day struggles of parenting, Mr. Yu's perspective offers both encouragement and a roadmap.Beyond parenting strategies, the conversation touches on the importance of community for fathers, the reality that loving your children doesn't always mean liking them in every moment, and how modeling a strong partnership sets children up for future relationship success.Whether you're just starting your parenting journey or navigating the complexities of older children, this episode provides honest, sometimes uncomfortable truths about what it takes to build Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.Our team will choose random (but timely) episodes from our previous three seasons (which are our most popular ever!) to share with our listeners during the slower parts of a long podcast season. We think you will enjoy them! Thanks for listening!Coffee aficionados and Health Conscious listeners, our show has some new sponsors and they’re offering you the best discounts their stores have. Links are below. Start saving now!Quantum Squares: