Episode Summary
Every day we give and receive communication. But good communication doesn’t always come naturally. Strengthening our skills is vital not only for those who specialize in communication but for everyone who wants to have healthy relationships, love our neighbors, and shape the world around us for good.In Authentic Communication, educators Tim Muehlhoff and Todd Lewis offer a wealth of resources from both communication studies and the Bible. This textbook unpacks the essential elements of communication and applies them to common challenges, offering a unique look at biblical principles of communication such as loving our enemies and blessing those who insult us.Dr Tim Muehlhoff's websiteDr Tim Muehlhoff at Biola UniversityDr Tim Muehlehoff on IVPressBook: Authentic Communication, Christian Speech Engaging CultureWHAT YOU'LL LEARN:Living Out Authentic CommunicationBiblical Forgiveness and CommunicationCommunication Reflects DiscipleshipABOUT THE GUEST: Dr Tim Muehlhoff is a professor of communication at the Bible Institute of Los Angeles (Biola) in La Mirada, CA. He is the senior director of the Winsome Conviction Project that seeks to open lines of communication, not close them.His newest book, Authentic Communication: Christian Speech Engaging Culture, written with Todd Lewis, blends biblical wisdom with communication research to help Christians become better listeners, wiser speakers, healthier peacemakers, and more faithful witnesses.RELATED LINKS:Dr Tim Muehlhoff's websiteDr Tim Muehlhoff at Biola UniversityDr Tim Muehlehoff on IVPressBook: Authentic Communication, Christian Speech Engaging CultureTIMESTAMPED SHOWNOTES:00:38 - Introducing Dr Tim Muehlhoff01:48 - Living Out Authentic Communication02:22 - ...destructive conflict vs conflict that helps relationships grow03:06 - ...compromise03:55 - ...latent conflict04:22 - ...setting ground rules04:36 - ...it will take time04:50 - Conflicts Within the Church05:16 - ...expect conflict06:06 - ...advancing Jesus' kingdom06:39 - ...the danger of choosing not to engage in conflict09:23 - Biblical Forgiveness & Communication10:00 - ...authentic forgiveness10:19 - ...giving up your right to get even10:39 - ...not the same as reconciliation13:12 - ...not forgiving is not an option14:33 - Being persuasive without manipulation, marketing, and winning arguments16:00 - ...the most persuasive thing is your reputation16:45 - Christians Engaging in Popular Culture17:29 - ...being part of the community18:17 - ...help our enemies19:43 - Communication Reflects Discipleship20:15 - ...Jesus only overturned the tables once...21:02 - ...but what did Jesus mostly do?22:06 - A Few Habits to Incorporate Authentic Communication
