Rachel chats about how to maintain a healthy long-term relationship in the forms of romantic competence, EQ, and emotional regulation. She then welcomes intimacy coach Amy Color who helps men with intimacy blocks and the two of them chat about porn addiction and male intimacy.  Episode Notes: Conversation with Amy begins at 00:12:08. Follow Amy: Website: https://www.amycolor.com/  Amy’s TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=4s&v=UkQ6FBltdYU  Book: The Huddle: How to Score in Sex & Love, by Amy Color (2021): https://www.amycolor.com/the-huddle-book  The Intimacy Game Plan Program: https://amycolor-scheduling.as.me/TalkToAmy  If you mention WD&69 you get 10% off! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amycolorintimacycoach  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amycolor.intimacycoach/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCv0kUopMmi3gxuoTE2SXd2w  Twitter: https://twitter.com/IntimateWithAmy  Discussed in this episode:  Another great TEDx Talk on the subject of porn addiction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dbYWKVAeu6Y&list=WL&index=30  CNBC, “We’ve studied over 30,000 couples—here are 6 phrases you’ll hear in the most successful relationships”, by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman (January 30, 2024): https://www.cnbc.com/2024/01/30/psychologists-say-the-happiest-couples-in-successful-relationships-always-use-these-phrases.html  Forbes, “A Psychologist Explains What It Means To Have ‘Romantic Competence’”, by Mark Travers (February 4, 2024): https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2024/02/04/a-psychologist-explains-what-it-means-to-have-romantic-competence/?sh=16f954fc39ae  Therapytips.org “Relationship Satisfaction Scale”, by Jourdan Travers, LCSW (October 10, 2023): https://therapytips.org/personality-tests/relationship-satisfaction-scale -------- Let’s keep talking! Have a question or idea for a topic? Email winedine69pod@gmail.com! Podcast artwork by Yogesh Nankar (Design by Dreamers). Intro and Outro music by John Bartmann.