"The thrill can last forever, it just needs a little help."  Most couples aren't struggling because of lack of love—they're struggling because of unmet expectations, unspoken wounds, and the myth that good relationships should feel effortless. The truth is: thrill fades unless you create it. Passion, connection, and great sex don't disappear over time—they disappear when you stop doing the things that made them possible.  Dr. Fraser breaks down why suffering in love isn't caused by what happens to us—but by how we resist it. Drawing on Buddhist psychology, real-world sex therapy, and her trademark no-BS style, she shares how to reignite thrill, deepen intimacy, and recover sensuality—even after decades of distance. She's bold, brilliant, and brutally honest.  Sharp, frank, and fearless, that's Buddhist psychologist, sex therapist, author and speaker Dr. Cheryl Fraser. With a rare combination of academic credibility, humor, straight-talk, and life-changing advice, Dr. Cheryl is a sought-after media psychologist and relationship expert. She has helped thousands of couples jumpstart their love life and create passion that lasts a lifetime.