LISTEN UP CONFIDANTES!! If there is ONE BOOK you could get your significant other to read - ITS THIS ONE!!! This conversation delves into the complexities of sexual desire, focusing on the dual control model, which highlights the importance of both accelerators and brakes in sexual arousal!!! WHICH IS SOMETHING VERY BASIC WE ALL SHOULD'VE LEARNED IN SCHOOL! The discussion explores the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire, the impact of stress on libido, and the concept of non-concordance where the body and mind may not align in sexual situations. -- AKA YOU'RE NOT THAT WEIRD AFTERALL!READ EMILYS BOOK HERE!https://www.bookmoonbooks.com/item/rPCoGQ_-yAW7UjERLZaHhwChapters00:00 Understanding the Dual Control Model05:54 Desire Styles: Spontaneous vs. Responsive12:04 The Impact of Stress on Libido18:01 Non-Concordance: Body vs. Mind24:07 Redefining Pleasure and Communication in SexSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy