You can't say yes to everything .... so where do you draw the line?In Episode #511 of 'Meanderings', Juan & I discuss: the “hell yes versus no” decision-making lens and where it truly fits, opportunity cost/time constraints/certainty versus uncertainty, how emotion or rationality shapes decisions, stacking reasons to make a strong yes, a practical quadrant for choosing activities based on enjoyment and likelihood of meeting people. Stan Link: https://stan.store/meremortalsTimeline: (00:00:00) Intro(00:03:39) Context matters: opportunity cost, age and life stage(00:07:45) Replacing habits: when a simple yes is enough(00:09:44) Decision heuristics: yes vs hell no for everyday choices(00:13:14) Capacity fills the time: stacking commitments and hard trade-offs(00:19:10) Workplace decision matrices vs personal life choices(00:23:06) System 1 and System 2: training intuition with deliberate thinking(00:27:49) Certainty vs uncertainty: when you need a hell yes to persist(00:31:07) A practical framework: enjoyment vs meeting-people quadrants(00:35:25) Boostagram lounge(00:36:02) Listener input: lazy no vs instinctive no(00:37:40) Upcoming moonshot gathering: why it's a clear yes(00:44:31) Stacking reasons: VeeCon memories, serendipity and energy(00:50:00) New tech temptations: why not every tool warrants a yes(00:55:01) Where we're still weak at decisions: money and overcommitting(01:03:17) Emotion vs reason: explaining feelings with rationality(01:05:48) Wrap-up, live time and Brisbane Marathon team invite  Connect with Mere Mortals:Website: https://www.meremortalspodcasts.com/Discord: https://discord.gg/jjfq9eGReUTwitter/X: https://twitter.com/meremortalspodsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/meremortalspodcasts/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meremortalspodcastsValue 4 Value Support:Boostagram: https://www.meremortalspodcasts.com/supportPaypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/meremortalspodcast